AR Rahman breaks silence on separation from wife Saira Banu

Oscar-winning composer AR Rahman has addressed the separation from his wife, Saira Banu, after nearly three decades of marriage.

The couple, who tied the knot on March 12, 1995, announced their decision to part ways on November 20, with Rahman reflecting on the emotional toll of the split.

“We had hoped to reach 30 years of marriage, but everything in this world has an end, unseen by anyone. Even the throne of God can tremble under the weight of broken hearts,” Rahman wrote on X, formerly known as Twitter.

The composer, known for his timeless hits such as Jai Ho and Dil Se, described the separation as “shattering” but expressed gratitude for the support and understanding shown by friends and well-wishers.

Rahman’s message highlighted the emotional complexity of the situation, acknowledging that the pain of broken hearts is something beyond anyone’s control. “While we are trying to navigate through this difficult time, shattered pieces cannot be put back together,” he added, thanking the public for respecting their privacy.

The news of the separation first came to light on November 19, when Saira Banu’s lawyer, Vandana Shah, issued an official statement confirming the split. According to Shah, Saira’s decision to part ways with Rahman was a result of emotional strain and difficulties that had developed over the years. “Despite their deep love for each other, the couple realized that bitterness and challenges had created a distance between them that neither party could overcome,” the statement read.

Saira, who has kept a low public profile throughout their marriage, appealed to the public for privacy and understanding. “This decision comes out of pain and agony,” she said, urging the public to respect her emotions as she navigates this difficult chapter of her life.

A.R. Rahman and Saira Banu share three children—Khadija, Raheema, and Ameen—and their marriage was arranged by Rahman’s mother. The couple had largely maintained a private life, away from the media spotlight, but their separation has brought them under intense scrutiny.

Both Rahman and Saira have requested that the public respect their privacy as they move forward. As one of India’s most celebrated musicians, Rahman’s personal life has often remained out of the public eye, but this recent revelation has left fans and the media reflecting on the complexities of relationships behind the scenes of fame.

In his emotional post, Rahman closed by expressing gratitude for the kindness extended by their friends and supporters, acknowledging that this “fragile chapter” would require time to heal. The couple’s separation marks the end of a significant era in the lives of both Rahman and Saira Banu, and it remains to be seen how they will navigate the future, both personally and professionally.